Thursday, February 7, 2013

Last December, a group of us, Lynbrook Moms,  were sitting around making paper snowflakes with which to decorate Sandy Hook Elementary's new school building, and we were debating how does such a tragedy occur? 
We wondered if there was any way to prevent our children from ever reaching the point of feeling so isolated, so angry or powerless, that they end up making desctructive decisions. 
No matter how enthusiastic, no matter how hard our Social Workers work (and they work very hard) to make connections with our children and bring vital programs to life in our buildings, we parents feel that 4 Social Workers divided between 7 buildings simply isn't enough. 
And so our parent driven letter was born. 
WE know these are very difficult ecomonic times, but we respectfully ask that you read our letter and please consider clicking on the link at the end and signing your name to our petition. 
Lynbrook School District Social Workers are like superheroes.  They handle all manner of crises with kindness and patience, and do their best to reach all of the students who need them.  One thing stands in their way, and that is: Time. 
Our Social Workers are shared between buildings.  Their assignments are as follows:
         Carol Woehr - Kindergarten, Waverly Park & Marion Street

         Sandra Gettenberg - West End & North Middle

         Karen Aquino - High School

         Roseanne Bogard - South Middle & High School
In the past, the District hired Social Workers through an agency.  Recognizing the importance of Social Workers invested in our children exclusively, Lynbrook School District wisely decided to move away from contracting through an agency and instead employed Social Workers directly.  This was a critical decision by the Administration and the Board of Education and has been much appreciated by parents and staff.  Now there are permanent Social Workers on staff, who are invested in our children, working with them from an early age, influencing not only those students assigned to them, but the entire population of students in our District.  The District went further by hiring additional Social Workers (1 part-time).  We parents applaud the District's forward thinking and ask that they continue to address our children's social-emotional needs by considering hiring a full time Social Worker for each building and 2 in the High School (as it has a larger population, and greater issues). 
Therefore, ideally we feel our children would benefit the most from having 8 full time Social Workers.  We feel they should have 1 Social Worker in every school, with 2 in the High School every day, full time and this is why:  The social and emotional education of our children is just as important as their academic education.

If there is a full-time Social Worker in each building, he/she would have the time needed to reach so many more of the students.  We would worry less about a student slipping through the cracks and becoming another teen suicide or responsible for a catastrophic act of violence.  Lynbrook has had 3 student suicides in approximately 8 years.  Although this is a sobering and devastating statistic, our Social Workers have saved a lot more lives!
Our Social Workers have wonderful programs that they could implement, if they had TIME! Our Social Workers want to advocate for families and children, to do so they need to be a more constant presence.  Students build relationships with the Social Workers and rely on their presence to get them through some tough times.  A students inability to access help when in the midst of a crisis can be so detrimental and even devastating.  Imagine having to say to a child who is in the middle of a crisis "hold onto those feelings of desperation until the Social Worker is back,"  or having to pull a Social Worker from another school who is not familiar with the child!

If we had a full-time Social Worker in each school, they could schedule time to do more outreach programs, to engage and instruct students and parents. They could push into classrooms, offering consistency and support, and form relationships with the students.  Students are more successful if they are connected to more adults. They could be visible and available during the lunch periods; currently they need to squeeze in their assigned students visits and groups during these times.  They could give classroom lessons and run more student groups based on specific needs, such as bereavement.   They could schedule parent meetings or parent/family coffee hours to keep parents informed and educated.  They could offer teacher training and sensitivity training to staff.  They could start in the Kindergarten Center with family workshops to ensure that mental health becomes part of the fabric of each students life.  We are aware of and appreciative of the current programs already in place in all the buildings.  However, the Social Workers have even more wonderful programs they could implement if they had the additional staffing.  The High School has the SADD (Students Against Destructive Decisions) club.  This could be pushed down into Lynbrook Middle Schools to help students avoid making poor decisions during these critical years. 

Our Social Workers want to form relationships with each child in our district, so that no childs social/emotional issues are neglected.  They understand that sometimes the students feel there is a certain stigma involved with speaking about their feelings. Reaching not just the at risk students but ALL students would help to normalize the idea that feelings can be discussed and, through that discussion, problems resolved.  Our students need to be properly equipped to cope with the stresses life will throw at them.  Their mental health should be a priority.  To serve the special needs population, one of the Social Workers additionally could be utilized as a Transition Coordinator and could meet with classified students beginning during the middle school years. This would provide special education students with learning activities and experiences designed to help them fulfill their potential for intellectual, emotional, physical, and social growth.  The Transition Coordinator could work with the classified students, their teachers and parents to systematically create individualized transition goals.

We often hear parents speak at Board of Education meetings asking what is the District doing about drug or alcohol use? What is the District doing about safety?  What is the District is doing about bullying?  If Lynbrook had more full time Social Workers, at each school, they could devote more time educating our children and their parents about these issues and teach them about good citizenship and healthy choices.

Full time Social Workers in each school will teach our kids the appropriate social skills to succeed. They not only help kids individually, but help them get along with each other.  This will lay the foundation for success in their future personal and business relationships. 

As parents in the Lynbrook School District, we are requesting the Administration and Board of Education consider hiring 4 additional full-time Social Workers.  Together, we recognize the intrinsic value for our students and communitys social health, emotional wellness, and overall safety.  
Yours respectfully,

A group of concerned Lynbrook Parents

Julie Bergin, Lori Borges, Denise Deputy, Karen Edelstein, Jennifer Hinderstein, Esther Marks, Randi Polansky, Nancy Wolfsohn

Please click here to open our petition and sign your name.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come, whispering "it will be happier". 

Happy New Year to all! 

2012 was a tough year for most and certainly a busy year for me.  Sadly many families were affected throughout Long Island by Hurricane Sandy, I hope that the year ahead will see them recovering and with community efforts I am sure this can happen!

In the days that followed Hurricane Sandy, I founded Schools Adopting Schools... I was so fortunate not to have had any damage to my home, and was deeply troubled that so many children's schools were affected... I wanted them to have some sense of normalcy again. With Schools Adopting Schools I Search for & Pair schools in need post hurricane sandy with those equipped
to help.  I am currently working with about 35 Schools.

In the Summer, my friend Kelly Stapleton and I organized Lynbrook's 4th annual Swim across America.  Kelly and I are Swim Across America Pool Swim Delegates.  To date we have raised over $50,000 for the organization in the hopes of finding a cure for cancer.  We were lucky enough to meet some of the Doctors who are researching and whose programs are directly supported by SAA. 
Swim Across America:  Fundraising for cancer research to find a cure
- I received Lynbrook citation
- I received NYS assembly citation

Lynbrook Swim Team
Organized weekly Bake sales throughout season to raise funds for swim team - end
year party, coaches gifts & new banner

In the Spring I was the Relay for Life West End Team Captain
- I put together a team to walk & we raised funds to fight cancer

St. Raymond's RC School -
Religious Ed teacher 4th grade

Lynbrook cares
With 3 of my friends I helped to create a Cooperative Community service group - of 12 4th grade girls & their moms.  We organize and participate in many community service projects throughout Lynbrook. 

Girl Scout Troop Leader for a West End Troop 2182
participated in many community service projects throughout the year.   

I am a member of Ladies Ancient Order of Hibernians, whose mission is to promote
friendship, unity and Christian charity. 
Created & maintain a Facebook page for group

I am a member of Glor na nGael Pipes & Drums
Color Guard for parades
Snare drum student
My son plays bagpipes and my daughter is a bagpiping student
Created & maintain a Facebook page for group

New York State Delegate to Mom Congress 2012
Chosen For my work in bringing technology to PTAs via Facebook & websites
- received Village of Lynbrook Citation
- was recognized at the Nassau region PTA Spring Conference

This September I was selected as one of New York state Assembly district 14's 2012 Women of Distinction
I was chosen for my community service efforts and dedication to the children of
- awarded proclamation by NYS Assemblyman Curran & Anthony Santino
- Received Village of Lynbrook Citation from Mayor
- Received Town of Hempstead Certificate of recognition from Town of hempstead
supervisor Kate Murray
- received Nassau County citation from Nassau county executive Edward Mangano

For the past 2 years I was PTA Co-President of my daughter's elementary school.  My biggest achievement would be that I created a PTA website, Facebook and email correspondence in an effort to engage parents and allow working parents more of a window into school and events.  It has become a vital link in everyday communications between the school and home.  I actively participated in every committee, and worked tirelessly to implement many new ideas to benefit the students. 

Current Lynbrook PTA volunteer positions:

Lynbrook PTA council
recording secretary
website development & maintenance
Click HERE to view the PTA Council Website which I have created and maintain

Lynbrook Septa
website development & maintenance
Click HERE to view the SEPTA Website which I have created

Lynbrook HS PTA
Website Development

Lynbrook North Middle School PTA
Delegate to Council &
website development & maintenance
Click HERE to view the North Middle School PTA Website which I have created and maintain

Lynbrook Waverly Park PTA
Website development
& training of website maintainer
Click HERE to view the Waverly Park PTA Website which I have created

Lynbrook West End PTA
Past President
1st VP,
Assemblies chair,
membership chair,
By laws committee,
Unity day committee - helped to organize many Unity day activities for West end promoting antibullying and friendship. 
Beautification committee,
4th grade chairperson,
Website development & maintenance
Click HERE to view the West End PTA Website which I have created and maintain

I am a member of Lynbrook school district's stategic planning communications committee

I work part time as a billing manager in a Chiropractor's office and I am a MOM! My kids are very active in sports... this year the sports included swim team, ice hockey, roller hockey, track, basketball, soccer, lacrosse, and a kids triathlon.  I provide chauffeur service to most of these events! :)  My kids like to volunteer in their community... I love this.  They both swam not only 1 mile for the Lynbrook Swim Across America event, but hopped back in and swam extra laps in honor of those who have passed from cancer.  They also volunteered at the Nassau County Swim Across America and worked at the refreshment table... their reward was knowing that they are doing something to find a cure for cancer!  Kids learn how to be good people and citizens by following in our examples...  Helping others begins to become natural once you practice kindness often! :)  Sometimes it's not easy... but you have to try!

If you have some spare time, I would encourage volunteering.  If we can each help one person in some small way that is a great thing! 

Happy 2013!